An anti-bucket list: the things you hope to never do before you die. Well, in this case things I hope to never do before I die….
1.) Get in a fight.
I know this seems like a silly or weird one, but it’s true. I don’t like fighting and I’m actually really calm, and don’t see the point?? Not to mention I don’t know how to fight and only know what I’ve seen in kung fu movies. I am not skilled at all so if there were ever a time where it were to happen I would not be able to do what Jackie Chan, or Bruce Lee have done there whole life. Not to mention I would look really stupid attempting to try it anyways.
2.) Break any bones.
I’m such a wimp when it comes to pain. I’m always afraid I’m going to break something not to mention I’m such a clutz that it feels like it’s only a matter of time before I break anything.
3.) Have a one night stand.
Notice this is something I hope to NEVER do. Call me old fashioned but I like the whole idea of liking someone, and falling for them. Not a hit it and quit it type of thing. I guess you could say I’m a hopeless romantic…why deny it? It’s true. I like the idea of getting to know someone. Besides, doing the “deed” I think is something special and shouldn’t be given to just anyone. I know I know some of you may be rolling your eyes, but I know secretly and deep down…..deep, DEEP down you might agree with me. : P
4.) Stop being a kid at heart.
This probably sounds like a weird one. But I’m a kid at heart. I like acting silly sometimes (at appropriate times of course). A lot of us grow old not physically but mentally as well. A lot of us are dealt with the need to grow up fast for whatever reason, and we just need to know it’s okay to be a kid sometimes. For example, I like watching cartoons and it doesn’t matter if I’m 12, 22, or 42 years old. I like acting odd for no reason with people I know or even don’t know. I could dance randomly like no one’s watching when they really are. Even if it’s like a harmless prank is fine with me. I could be growing old I just don’t want my heart to be.
5.) Die alone.
Now this might sound desperate but it’s really not. It could be where I’ve had someone and then we’re not together anymore. I just want to think that I’ve had a chance to live my life fully and had a chance to go out, and had a boyfriend (or even) get married. I know life works in mysterious ways, but I want the chance to have had a boyfriend even if it didn’t work out with them. Just the experience alone is enough for what I’m saying. Knowing I lived and had what surprisingly a lot of people haven’t had but crave.
6.) Get a cavity.
Again with me being a whimp when it comes to pain. I can’t take it. I’ve never had a cavity and I always hope that I never get one whenever I go to the dentist. I’m not going to lie, I’m proud that I’ve never gotten a cavity and I hope I can say that I’ve never had one and I hope I never get one.
7.) Try/Do Drugs.
I know I’m a square, but I don’t care. Heh that rhymed, okay sorry back to business. I like that I’m a goody-two-shoes and yes I’m proud of it. I never wanted to try and I don’t want to try it at all. I’ve seen what happens to certain family members and I don’t like the outcome of it. Not to mention I find no purpose for it, and don’t need it to look “cool” for some people. I know some might be like aren’t you curious to see what they taste like? At least one? Well, the answer is pretty simple: no. Curiosity killed the cat—or in this case maybe drugs who knows….
8.) Stop acting/doing what I love.
Now this is a true one for me that not everyone can agree with. I love acting whether on stage or film. I don’t ever want to think about stopping what I love to do. It’s something that I always want to do for the rest of my life, and I can’t think about stopping. I know we all have that one career we’re passionate about and one that we can’t stop hoping we’ll get, or hoped to get when we’re older. I’ve heard people ask someone, “Oh what did you want to be when you were older? Or could see your self doing?” I want to tell them, “I’m doing it.”
Well, that’s my Top 8. What would be your top 8 for the Anti-Bucket list? Would you have an Anti-Bucket list? Try it and see sometimes it’s just fun to see what you wouldn’t do, or think of doing.